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Healing Library

Posted by on February 17, 2015 in

So many healing books! So much housekeeping to be done in the library. Meanwhile, here are links to a few of the books I’ve written about. The Cure by Andrea Barrett.  A short story, complete with a cure cottage, set in the Adirondacks. The Magic Land by Julie Moir Messervy.  A small and different kind of guidebook for creating a healing place. Folly by Laurie King.  A suspense novel–with a healing slant. Olive Kitteridge by Elizabeth Strout. A collection of interconnected stories The Kingdom of Ordinary Time by Marie Howe. A new collection of poetry by the author of What the Living Do (If you’re more interested in pieces about healing poems you can find those here.)   Photo is of a bookstore in Amsterdam and can be found...

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Writing and Healing Prompts

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The writing and healing prompts gathered here have been developed and gathered over the past 10 years or so, and are now numbered—beginning with the earliest prompts posted in 2006. In addition, I’ve started in 2016 posting twice daily writing prompts at Twitter. These prompts are different than the numbered ones below, and you can read more about them and see the prompts here. Please feel free to share any of the writing prompts as you wish— 1. Designing a Healing Retreat 2. Freewriting 3. The Body as a Healing Place 4. The Easiest Writing and Healing Exercise Ever 5. A Shopping Spree 6. Discovering Needs and Desires 7. Has Writing Ever Changed Your Life? 8. Buy a Box 9. The Mystery of Language 10. Conjuring New Images and Metaphors for Healing 11. A Scavenger Hunt 12. Falling Apart 13. Lifelines 14. Considering a Package 15. Listing What Remains 16. A Walk on a Strange Street 17. Steps for Making a Written Collage 18. The Things We Carry 19. The Good Part in Other People’s Stories 20. Finding a Benefit in Adversity 21. Meanwhile 22. Once Upon a Time 23. What If the Moon’s a Balloon? 24. Deciding Who to Bring on the Train 25. A Memo at Your Breakfast Plate 26. Figuring Out the Shape of the Story 27. What Am I Here For? (part one) //    What Am I Here For? (part two) 28. Consulting with the Wizard of Oz 29. A Title for Your Quest 30. Choosing Chapter Titles 31. Locating a Turning Point 32. Keeping a Process Journal: A Long-Term Solution to Writer’s Block 33. Imagining Refuge 34. The Next Step 35. My Favorite Piece of Writing Advice from Natalie Goldberg 36. A Letter for Breaking Through Resistance 37. A Conversation with a Companion 38. I’ve Always Meant to Tell You: A Different Kind of Mother’s Day Greeting 39. Changing the Plot 40. A Clean Copy 41. Reading to Discover What You Most Want to Write 42. Imagining the Future 43. Rest Hour 44. What Audience Do You Imagine When You’re Writing? 45. Drawing a Map 46. Opening the Door 47. Choose a Word 48. Locating a Potential for Change 49. What Really Counts in This Life? 50. Listening in the Silence 51. Ira Progoff’s Stepping Stones 52. Stepping Stones in 3 dimensions 53. Words as Snowshoes 54. Become a Lake 55. Gratitude as Antidote 56. What if Appearances Are Deceptive? 57. Instructions by Neil Gaiman: The Writing Prompts 58. Writing about...

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Month 12: Creating a Guest House

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Month 12: Creating a Guest House

In the fall of 2010, for one week, I made a point of tracking searches to One Year of Writing and Healing recording some of these. During this particular week in early November, a little over 200 people visited the site. Someone in Hanoi got there by searching for the Yeats’s poem, “The Lake Isle of Innisfree.” Someone in Pine Lake, Georgia arrived via “healing poetry.” A person in Bombay searched for the story “Grief” by Anton Chekhov. Someone from Tyler, Texas searched at 2AM for “writing grief.” And someone in Perth, Australia reached the site by one of its more popular searches and a poem I’ve come to appreciate more and more as the years go by—the poem, “The Guest House,” by Rumi. Here are the first twelve lines: This being human is a guest house. Every morning a new arrival.   A joy, a depression, a meanness, some momentary awareness comes as an unexpected visitor.   Welcome and entertain them all! Even if they’re a crowd of sorrows, who violently sweep your house empty of its furniture, still, treat each guest honorably. He may be clearing you out for some new delight. I’ve come to appreciate Rumi’s poem for the way in which it offers company. A person might think in the middle of the night that they’re alone with sorrow, or with some other unexpected and difficult visitor, but the simplest of searches could bring any one of us to the poets, many of whom have been there long before us. Rumi, a Persian poet, wrote in the thirteenth century. I can’t imagine him having written this poem without some deep and long familiarity with difficult emotions. And then that breakthrough. Emotions as guests? The possibility of extending true hospitality toward them? And how wonderful that a guest might arrive with such a useful broom. This metaphor of a guest house—this idea of welcoming whatever comes in the twelfth month and finding a way to hold it for the time being—this also emerged out of revision. There is much yet to be done with this room. Meanwhile, it’s a metaphor—an idea—this notion of trying to welcome what comes. Full text of Rumi’s poem can be found here. Photo from Wikimedia...

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Month 11: Gathering Resources for the Long Haul

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Month 11: Gathering Resources for the Long Haul

  If we’re going to engage in the process of healing for longer than a weekend—or longer than week—or a month—we’re going to need resources. There are so many possibilities here, and this too is a room I have intentions to expand. But meanwhile, here are some places to begin. Words as a resource for writing and healing Healing poetry  ...

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Months 9&10: Figuring Out the Good Part

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Months 9&10: Figuring Out the Good Part

The title for this month springs from an essay, “The Good Part,” written by Dennis Covington and found in the anthology, The Healing Circle. Covington’s essay is such a good essay, funny and sharp. It asks and re-asks what I think are terribly relevant questions to writing and healing: What’s the good part? Have you gotten to the good part? The challenge, I think, when figuring out the good part in regard to some difficulty or pain is to figure this out without glossing over or suppressing what is painful and difficult. Mary Oliver, I think, strikes this balance in her poem, The Wild Geese. But you may also want to start with some research on figuring out the good part: Asking a New Question: More Research on Writing and Healing Writing and Healing and Breast Cancer Research on Shifting One’s Point of View in Writing Or with one of the pieces below that has to do with reframing–considering something or some things from a new perspective. The Healing Circle Anthology can be found here. Photo taken in Northumberland, England...

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