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The Cure by Andrea Barrett

Posted by on January 16, 2022 in Blog, Healing Places, Uncategorized

The Cure by Andrea Barrett

I have found a cure cottage come to life in a piece of fiction. Everything, thinks Elizabeth, is in order. Ms. Barrett continues: Everything is as it should be, exactly as she would wish it: nine o’clock, on this December day in 1905, and already breakfast has been cooked and served and cleared, Livvie and Rosellen are at the dishes, and all nine of her boarders are resting, wrapped in blankets and robes, on the lower veranda or the private porches of the upstairs rooms. In the light, airy dining room, the new napkins look well in their rings and the cloth is crisp on the table.  In the kitchen—the girls look up as she walks by, smiling without interrupting the dance of dishes passing from basin to basin and hand to hand—and also in the mudroom, the woodshed, the smaller shed where the laundry is stored in enormous lidded crates until the boilers are fired up twice each week, everything is as it should be for this hour and minute of the day. There’s a sense of healing place. A sense of order. And a sense that Andrea Barrett has all the time in the world in which to tell us about it. Because of the sensory detail, the rhythm of the prose, I feel my mind slowing down as I read. I feel myself drawn into this world, imagining it. Beginning in the Adirondacks, the story moves back and forth in place, and time, tracing the lives of two women as they come together to run this boardinghouse.  Elizabeth, the housekeeper. Nora, the nurse. Nora begins her training in Detroit with a root-and-herb healer Fannie, first living in Fannie’s spare room, going out with her to collect herbs and roots, drying the herbs and roots in her kitchen, making house calls to the sick, then working for a time in a Soldier’s Home with civil war veterans, before making her way to the Adirondacks, her brother’s inn, and beginning to “doctor” the consumptives who have come there to stay.  She tries to explain to her brother about this work she’s found: ‘This is what I’m meant to do,” she said—although the swiftness with which it came about had taken her by surprise.  ‘It’s what I learned while we were apart, it’s how I make use of myself.’ Elizabeth, the younger of the two women, first makes her way to the Adirondacks with her mother, Clara, arriving that first summer at the inn where Nora lives with her brother. Over time, Elizabeth, still a young woman, attaches herself to Nora, and the two women create together the cure cottage, working together for seven years before Nora dies and Elizabeth continues to carry on the work in her absence. The story opens with the cottage.  It also closes with it.  There’s a nice sense of symmetry—and of culmination.  Elizabeth’s point of view.  Elizabeth’s discovery.  A wonderful play on the word cure-cottage.  What the house itself has come to mean for her. Here is her house.  Not a duty, but her living self.  It is as if, she thinks, as she moves toward Martin and Andrew and all the others up the walk and the clean brick steps, her hand reaching of its own accord for the polished brass knob in the four-paneled...

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Writing and Healing Idea #31: Locating a Turning Point

Posted by on March 6, 2016 in Uncategorized

I’m interested in the point during a difficult time when things might begin to turn.  I’m interested in that moment when something new happens—when an entirely new possibility begins to emerge out of the chaos.  Even if its only a glimpse—an image—the embryo of an image—or maybe just a story—or a boook. In Folly, a novel by Laurie King, the turning point for Rae, the central character, comes by way of a book.  While in the psychiatric hospital, trying to recover, longing to return to home and work, but at the same time terrified, this happens: Into this tangle of inchoate yearnings and inexpressible fears had dropped a book, one of those strangely assorted and badly worn paperbacks abandoned by patients or donated by the carton to such places as mental hospitals.  It was missing its cover and the first dozen pages, but the remainder fell into Rae’s confused and heavily sedated mind like a seed into loam. A book about a man building a house. And, after she reads it: Great-uncle Desmond’s skeletal home came to her as in a dream. In truth, during those months most things came to her as in a dream, but this one did not fade.  Instead, it blossomed swiftly into full potential:  She would pull herself together, she would go and rebuild Desmond’s house, she would lift his walls and dwell within them quietly all the rest of her days.  Everything that House was lay there waiting for her to take it up: House as shelter, House as permanence, House as continuation and a legacy, comfort and challenge, safety and beauty, symbol and reality joined as one. House as turning point. A book about a house serving as a turning point. I have this notion that if we could become better readers of such turning points—if we could see them—and recognize them—in stories—then we might become more skillful at recognizing them in our own lives.  Oh.  I wonder if that could be a turning point—some new opportunity—a way out. The idea then: to pay attention to a story—your own or a story you’re reading or from a film—and write about that moment when things, however faintly, and perhaps even tenuously, begin to turn.  How does the character recognize the turning point when it occurs? Is it always clear at the time that it’s a turning point? Can a story or book itself become a turning point? You can read more about the book, Folly,...

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Writing and Healing in the Waiting Room: A Research Study

Posted by on February 27, 2016 in Uncategorized

The study: Implementing an Expressive Writing Study in a Cancer Clinic by Nancy P. Morgan et. al. The Oncologist, Vol. 13, No. 2, 196-204, February 2008 As far as I know this is the first study on writing and healing done in the thick of medical care.  It’s a nice practical study.  Conducted outside the quiet of a laboratory. Researchers at Lombardi Cancer Center at Georgetown invited cancer patients to do a brief twenty-minute writing task while they waited for their appointments.  Those who agreed to participate were then randomized to respond to one of two different writing prompts. The first writing prompt is one developed by James Pennebaker: Cancer can touch every part of your life—issues of family, love, anger, career, life and death, and even issues about childhood and specific experiences in life.  In your writing, let go and explore your deepest thoughts and feelings about the issues that you feel are most important to you right now. The second writing prompt is one unique to this study: How has cancer changed you and how do you feel about those changes? Participants wrote in the waiting room and, also in some cases, while back in the exam room, waiting to be seen. 49% reported that the writing changed the way they thought about their illness. 35% reported that the writing changed the way they felt about their illness. At three-week follow-up, those who reported changing the way they thought about their illness experienced better physical quality-of-life scores. Perhaps the most important thing to come out of the study was this notion of feasibility—that people could and did write in the waiting room.  This in what sounds like a very ordinary waiting room—noisy and busy and rife with interruptions.  Of 98 people invited to participate, 71 agreed, and 63 completed the 20-minute writing session. I like this notion—writing in the waiting room.  It’s one way to get around the obstacle that so many people seem to face when it comes to writing—not wanting to add one more task to an overly-full day.  Though one might miss out on the latest People magazine—and though there are certain days when escape inside a People magazine may offer its own kind of respite—there’s something attractive about this idea of using waiting time for writing. I wonder if this wouldn’t become even more possible in those waiting rooms that pay attention to good design—good comfortable chairs and good lighting and such.  Perhaps an alcove for reading and writing. _________________________________________________________________ For a glimpse at what’s possible in the design of a waiting room, you might want to take a look at this article in the New York Times about the waiting room at the Jay Monahan Center in Manhattan. Here’s a description: The adjacent waiting area, hugely expanded from a cramped rectangle into a spacious serpentine shape, incorporates two walls of windows. Its modern club chairs, in inviting fabrics and bright, strong colors, are not yoked together in the depersonalizing bus-station style. Instead, they are scattered in conversational groupings that can be easily rearranged. Bamboo floors provide visual warmth – and can be cleaned with soap and water, so antiseptic-smelling cleansers are no longer required. There are no signs prohibiting eating, drinking or talking on cellphones – all are permitted – and patients...

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Satellite Call by Sara Bareilles

Posted by on September 14, 2014 in Uncategorized

Satellite Call by Sara Bareilles

A couple weeks back I wrote about William Stafford’s poem, “A Ritual to Read to Each Other,” and those lines that seem like such clear instructions: the signals we give—yes or no, or maybe— should be clear; the darkness around us is deep. After writing about the poem, this song, “Satellite Call” by Sara Bareilles, came to mind. Itself a poem. It seems to me as if in these lyrics Bareilles is following William Stafford’s instructions. Sending out a satellite call into and across the darkness: You may find yourself in the dead of night Lost somewhere out there in the great big beautiful sky You are all just perfect little satellites Spinning round and round this broken earthly life This is so you’ll know the sound Of someone who loves you from the ground Tonight you’re not alone at all This is me sending out my satellite call I also think it’s just such a pretty song. The video here is a live version, her singing at the piano in Indianapolis. I’ve also included a link below to a video version with lyrics. I love the idea of writing going out like a satellite call. So that we can become both receivers and senders. If you could send out a satellite call what would you say? And if you could receive one, what would you most like to hear? The song is from her album, Blessed Unrest. A video of the song with lyrics is here. The piece about Stafford’s poem is...

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A Ritual to Read to Each Other by William Stafford

Posted by on August 30, 2014 in Uncategorized

A Ritual to Read to Each Other by William Stafford

I came across this poem thanks to Daniel Sperry, a cellist who has been working on a CD of William Stafford poetry combined with cello music. In his Kickstarter campaign, which I stumbled across (and which is now fully funded) he includes a few lines from William Stafford’s poem, “A Ritual to Read to Each Other,” which I don’t believe I’ve ever heard before. It inspired me to go find the whole poem. The poem begins: If you don’t know the kind of person I am and I don’t know the kind of person you are a pattern that others made may prevail in the world and following the wrong god home we may miss our star. I like the way this poem calls us to responsibility. We may not know much, but the little we do know we have some responsibility to share, if even in conversation—to share something of ourselves, at least now and then—to say something true, perhaps, rather than what is expected, or might be approved of. Or to simply make the effort to show kindness. Even when it’s a risk. Even when we can’t know how it will be received. The poem continues: For there is many a small betrayal in the mind, a shrug that lets the fragile sequence break sending with shouts the horrible errors of childhood storming out to play through the broken dyke. Here he seems to be talking about the listening piece of conversation. How we receive what is offered to us—what is shared with us in conversation. a shrug that lets the fragile sequence break. How important it might be not to shrug or look away in response. How fragile the sequence can sometimes be. The pain that can be let loose on the other side when we turn away—those horrible errors of childhood storming out to play through the broken dyke. And we are the ones, at least some of the time, who can keep that dyke from breaking? Simply by paying attention? And looking for opportunities to keep the sequence from breaking? Two more stanzas and then the poem closes: For it is important that awake people be awake, or a breaking line may discourage them back to sleep, the signals we give—yes or no, or maybe— should be clear; the darkness around us is deep. Ah, such urgency. I appreciate that. And I’m wondering now why he gives this poem the title he does. So that we might realize this is something we may need to read and understand not once, but over and over, like a ritual, or a practice? Maybe? Daniel Sperry’s Kickstarter can be found here. The photo was found at morningmeditations.com See also: A piece on Kindness by Naomi Shihab...

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