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Why an ebook of One Year of Writing and Healing?

Posted by on April 2, 2023 in Blog, Book, Writing Ideas

Why an ebook of One Year of Writing and Healing?

I am delighted to announce that One Year of Writing and Healing is now an ebook! I’ve completed a project which I’ve been intending to complete for a while: an ebook of the book I self-published back in 2016: One Year of Writing and Healing. It’s revised a bit—I couldn’t resist—but it is not fundamentally different from the 2016 book and thus I am not labeling it as a new edition. One way to think about the book is as a kind of extended workshop on writing and healing with the support of research and the good company of poets, along with—of course—a plethora of writing prompts. One could spend a year going through it—or a month—or one could dip in and out of it over a period of years at your leisure. Feedback about the book is welcome. Are there parts that seem useful? Are there topics you’d like to hear more about? You can contact me using the navigation link (in the sidebar or under navigation links): “Contact me.” I’m thinking about writing at this site again—maybe—and I’m staying open to what might be good topics and material for picking up the writing here again. Order the book...

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A constellation of stories

Posted by on January 19, 2022 in Stories

A constellation of stories

Some years ago now I was leading a writing and healing group for recovering cancer patients. I asked them to picture what they saw in their minds when they heard the word healing. Healing is . . . what? “Healing is movement,” one woman said. “What do you see when you hear the word movement?” I asked her. “What do you see inside your head?” “I’m mulching,” she said. “I’m working in the garden, raking. I’m thinking about this T-shirt I have that says, ‘I’m not getting older, I just need repotting.’” I can relate. (Who of us wouldn’t love some days to simply be repotted?) “Healing is the apex,” another woman added. “Healing is eureka. I see myself throwing my hands up in the air. After I’ve gotten good news on the telephone. The doctor called. I was so afraid it was going to be bad news, but then it was good news.” Healing is mulching. Raking. Repotting. Healing is the apex. Healing is eureka—that longed-for good news on the telephone. “Healing,” N said, “is a taskmaster.” There was a pause after she spoke. I could feel a slight shift in the room. “Would you mind terribly?” I asked, “If I were to ask you what you see in your head when you hear the word taskmaster?” She answered immediately. “Ichabod Crane.” It was such a strong and vivid response. I could see the image clearly. That stooped and bony man from a book of childhood tales. The long nose. Those pointed shoes. Ichabod Crane is the schoolmaster in Washington Irving’s “The Legend of Sleepy Hollow.” He teaches in a one-room schoolhouse. When students don’t study properly he strikes them with a birch rod, the rod landing with a sharp thwack on their shoulders. Is healing really like that? Is it like that sometimes? Is it like that for some people? And if healing is Ichabod Crane, what might illness and trouble be? The student? The hard lesson? The inkwell? The wooden desk? The bony horse? The stormy night? The sleepy hollow? “Illness,” S says, “is a jagged torn place.” It’s another strong metaphor, and one that seems to open a door to a whole host of others. “Cancer is a grass-covered black pit,” someone says. “Cancer is a dragon,” someone adds. R pulls the images together. “Cancer is a dragon at the bottom of a grass-covered black pit.” It’s the beginning of another full and possible story. A hero or heroine has fallen into a pit and now she’s down there with the dragon, has looked perhaps into his yellow eye. And now what? So many possible stories. What if healing were, at least in part, a constellation of such stories? And what if some portion of the work of writing and healing was simply to consider this? To consider that healing might be less like fixing a car or a machine and more like (or at least also like) discovering and crafting a story? What if story could be a way to come to know something that we need to know? What if? ________________________________________________ Picture is from Penguin Random...

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The Cure by Andrea Barrett

Posted by on January 16, 2022 in Blog, Healing Places, Uncategorized

The Cure by Andrea Barrett

I have found a cure cottage come to life in a piece of fiction. Everything, thinks Elizabeth, is in order. Ms. Barrett continues: Everything is as it should be, exactly as she would wish it: nine o’clock, on this December day in 1905, and already breakfast has been cooked and served and cleared, Livvie and Rosellen are at the dishes, and all nine of her boarders are resting, wrapped in blankets and robes, on the lower veranda or the private porches of the upstairs rooms. In the light, airy dining room, the new napkins look well in their rings and the cloth is crisp on the table.  In the kitchen—the girls look up as she walks by, smiling without interrupting the dance of dishes passing from basin to basin and hand to hand—and also in the mudroom, the woodshed, the smaller shed where the laundry is stored in enormous lidded crates until the boilers are fired up twice each week, everything is as it should be for this hour and minute of the day. There’s a sense of healing place. A sense of order. And a sense that Andrea Barrett has all the time in the world in which to tell us about it. Because of the sensory detail, the rhythm of the prose, I feel my mind slowing down as I read. I feel myself drawn into this world, imagining it. Beginning in the Adirondacks, the story moves back and forth in place, and time, tracing the lives of two women as they come together to run this boardinghouse.  Elizabeth, the housekeeper. Nora, the nurse. Nora begins her training in Detroit with a root-and-herb healer Fannie, first living in Fannie’s spare room, going out with her to collect herbs and roots, drying the herbs and roots in her kitchen, making house calls to the sick, then working for a time in a Soldier’s Home with civil war veterans, before making her way to the Adirondacks, her brother’s inn, and beginning to “doctor” the consumptives who have come there to stay.  She tries to explain to her brother about this work she’s found: ‘This is what I’m meant to do,” she said—although the swiftness with which it came about had taken her by surprise.  ‘It’s what I learned while we were apart, it’s how I make use of myself.’ Elizabeth, the younger of the two women, first makes her way to the Adirondacks with her mother, Clara, arriving that first summer at the inn where Nora lives with her brother. Over time, Elizabeth, still a young woman, attaches herself to Nora, and the two women create together the cure cottage, working together for seven years before Nora dies and Elizabeth continues to carry on the work in her absence. The story opens with the cottage.  It also closes with it.  There’s a nice sense of symmetry—and of culmination.  Elizabeth’s point of view.  Elizabeth’s discovery.  A wonderful play on the word cure-cottage.  What the house itself has come to mean for her. Here is her house.  Not a duty, but her living self.  It is as if, she thinks, as she moves toward Martin and Andrew and all the others up the walk and the clean brick steps, her hand reaching of its own accord for the polished brass knob in the four-paneled...

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Gate A-4 by Naomi Shihab Nye

Posted by on September 3, 2016 in Blog, Healing Poetry

Gate A-4 by Naomi Shihab Nye

This is the world I want to live in. Wandering around the Albuquerque Airport Terminal, after learning my flight had been delayed four hours, I heard an announcement: “If anyone in the vicinity of Gate A-4 understands any Arabic, please come to the gate immediately.” Well—one pauses these days. Gate A-4 was my own gate. I went there. I’m rereading the beginning of this poem now, and I know how it ends—and I realize this is the moment that sets the story of the poem in motion. The speaker goes against hesitation—against the small fear—the pause—because of the way things are “these days.” It reminds me of that moment in Opening the Door of Mercy—that question that arises: But when someone approaches, I have to decide: Is my own safety always the most important consideration? Must I fear all whom I don’t know? Do I help or not? An older woman in full traditional Palestinian embroidered dress, just like my grandma wore, was crumpled to the floor, wailing. “Help,” said the flight agent. “Talk to her. What is her problem? We told her the flight was going to be late and she did this.” I stooped to put my arm around the woman and spoke haltingly. “Shu-dow-a, Shu-bid-uck Habibti? Stani schway, Min fadlick, Shu-bit- se-wee?” The minute she heard any words she knew, however poorly used, she stopped crying. She thought the flight had been cancelled entirely. She needed to be in El Paso for major medical treatment the next day. I said, “No, we’re fine, you’ll get there, just later, who is picking you up? Let’s call him.” Nye’s father is Palestinian—so there’s a familiarity to the older woman—her dress—her language. But for the flight agent, the difference is more severe—and alienating. And the wailing heightens it. Fear is rising, I suspect. We all do this. I do this. A disturbance in the smooth ordinary hum of things—an interruption—can frighten me—or at least throw me. I once dreamed that I was trying to buy a bus ticket to get home. This went on for a while. Finally, I found a Greyhound counter, but the woman behind the counter seemed disoriented. She was crying. Something had happened. In the dream, I tried to summon patience—to let her talk—draw her out. Regretfully, this only lasted a minute in the dream, if that long. Then I myself was wailing! “Where can I get a bus ticket?” Sometimes safety is not the only issue. Efficiency can be an issue, or just getting what we want—say, the comforts of home. We called her son, I spoke with him in English. I told him I would stay with his mother till we got on the plane and ride next to her. She talked to him. Then we called her other sons just for the fun of it. Then we called my dad and he and she spoke for a while in Arabic and found out of course they had ten shared friends. Then I thought just for the heck of it why not call some Palestinian poets I know and let them chat with her? This all took up two hours. I would like to become this kind of person: the one who makes the call; who stays as long as it takes; who forgets about trying to get home; who...

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Writing and Healing Idea #1: Designing a Healing Retreat

Posted by on August 13, 2016 in Healing Places, Writing Ideas

Writing and Healing Idea #1: Designing a Healing Retreat

Imagine for a moment that you go to your mailbox.  You find there an envelope—a small white square.  You open the envelope to find an invitation–to a healing retreat. A sheet of paper accompanying the card offers details: For six weeks, it has become possible for all of your ordinary routines and responsibilities to be suspended.  Work schedules have been rearranged.  Children will be safe and well-cared for.  Any appointments (or medical treatments) have been rescheduled such that they will not interfere.  In fact, any and all obstacles standing in the way of this retreat have been removed.  In addition, your house or apartment will be cared for in your absence.  Plants will be watered.  Floors swept.  The refrigerator cleaned out.  Your task, now, is simply to design—in writing—or perhaps with drawings—this retreat. In order to design this retreat you may find yourself needing to suspend disbelief.  (Someone is really going to clean out my refrigerator for me?)  Go ahead.  Suspend.  Once you’ve done so you may find the following questions useful in designing your retreat: Where would you like the retreat to take place?What weather do you like?What kind of light?What resources would you like available close by?Walking trails?A piano?A swimming pool?A lake?What kind of accommodations do you prefer?Will the place have a porch?A window?Would you like to be alone in this place?Or do you prefer company?And what kind of company?Do you prefer quiet?Or noise?What sounds do you imagine in this place?What about smells?What does the sky look like in this place?How does the air feel?Where will you sit?Where will you sleep?What will you eat?How will the refrigerator be stocked?Who will prepare your food?What would you like to do on the first day?On a typical day?Is there anything else that’s important to the design of this retreat?What else?   Please note that the seed for this invitation to design a healing retreat comes from a short chapter in Deena Metzger’s book, Writing for Your Life.  The chapter, entitled, “Setting Up a Retreat,” can be found on p. 81. Photo is of the original Wildacres Retreat Cabin – the Owl’s Nest Cabin – in the Blue Ridge Mountains of North Carolina where I had the good fortune to spend a week of writing retreat on two different occasions.  You can learn more about Wildacres Retreats here. They’ve added two additional cabins since I stayed...

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